It felt as if the volunteer for the American Cancer Society had thrown a glass of cold water in my face.
In reality, she had simply spoken a truth that I needed to hear.
When she learned that next year is my thirty-year anniversary for recovery from malignant melanoma (the most deadly form of skin cancer), she encouraged me to attend an upcoming Relay for Life event.
“Thanks,” I said, “but that’s not really my thing.”
Her response was, “Well, it’s not FOR you. Your presence will give hope to the newly diagnosed.”
My cancer was identified at an early stage because I like to read. I had my 18-month-old son at the pediatrician for a well-baby visit, and while waiting, I picked up a pamphlet about skin cancer.
When I opened it, I saw vivid color photos of the four warning signs of a cancerous mole. And I knew the mole on my left leg hit all four buttons.
I made an immediate appointment with an oncologist, and the results proved positive for melanoma. Surgery was scheduled for later that week.
The doctor, just after delivering the bad news, told me, “I’ve never had anyone be as calm as you are. Most people get upset or angry or cry or yell WHY ME?”
And I do recall being calm in my reply: “Why NOT me? Should I wish this on someone else?”
I made it my mission to become my own expert on skin cancer. Here are some facts.
Pay attention.
According to the Mayo Clinic, use the ABCDE method to remember the signs of a cancerous mole:
- A = Asymmetrical shape. Moles may have irregular shapes. If you folded it in half, pieces would overlap.
- B = irregular Border. Look for moles with irregular or scalloped borders.
- C = Color. It may be multi-colored (such as brown/black) or have an uneven distribution of color.
- D = Diameter. Is it larger than a pencil eraser?
- E = Evolving. Is it getting larger or changing shape? Is it starting to bleed or itch?
Cancerous (malignant) moles may show all of the changes noted above, while others may have only one or two unusual characteristics.
Tanning does NOT protect you from skin cancer; it is a cumulative effect. Your skin cells are being damaged every time you’re out in the sun unprotected.
You owe it to yourself and the people who love you to have any suspicious mole examined by a dermatologist.
Some people don’t believe that skin cancer is that serious. And yes, there are varying degrees of seriousness for the various skin cancers. But left undetected, any type gets more dangerous.
Melanoma accounts for just 1% of skin cancers. But the American Cancer Society predicts that 87,000 new cases will be diagnosed in 2017. And nearly 10,000 people will die of melanoma this year. That’s serious, by any measure.
So while I’ll be attending my grandson’s graduation during this year’s Relay for Life, I’ll be there next year.
Because I am a survivor.
Because we all need hope.
Amem?
SPF30 every 2 hours when in the sun.
Have the red dry spots checked too…squamous cell and basal cell can be removed before they get worse.
I spend a lot of time in the shade during the summer! Attended a grandson’s graduation last Saturday; it started at 9am but it didn’t take long for the sun to come beating down. I was SPF’d 50 for sure! And fortunately I had worn a shawl which ended up draped over my head to give extra protection to the back of my neck and shoulders. I saw men pulling up collars and even stuffing the graduation programs down the back of their shirts to protect their necks. REAL men wear sunblock!
Thanks for the info! We should all be checked out. Growing up it was baby oil and a little iodine combined to make our sun tan lotion. Just like frying in oil.
WOW! We were so foolish (:-(
I recall two really terrible sunburns as a young adult. Blistering and nauseating. If only I had known back then what I know now.
I remember your ordeal well – since I was there to help you through some tough recuperation time. It certainly made me more aware of checking myself for changes in my skin – especially my face, neck, and arms. To date, I have had two “Moh’s surgeries” on my face to remove and repair cancerous cells plus four other basal/squamous cell spots removed – all requiring minor surgery with stitches. So, yes, keep those dermatology appointments!
Yes, please make sure a certain someone reads that post and remind her to wear sunblock!!!