There’s a label people attempt to stick on me, and I don’t like it one bit.
Elderly. It seems that anyone aged 65+ is elderly. The US Census Bureau, Medicare, and the Canadian government use age 65 as the qualifier for “elderly.”
Just today I got my flu shot at Walgreen’s. The person administering the shot told me, “You get the high dose shot because you’re elderly.”
OK, I get it that people 65 and older are inoculated with Fluzone High-Dose which contains four times as much flu virus antigen as other standard flu vaccines.
It seems that as we age, we produce 50-75% fewer antibodies in response to a regular flu shot. So the high dose is expected to compensate for that (per Mayo Clinic).
But why refer to me as elderly? I was, after all, in workout clothes and sneakers on my way to a Zumba class. OK, a Zumba GOLD class made up of women my age. But still, we’re out there doing the moves.
I remember being 20 and thinking anyone over 35 was ancient. When I had my first baby at age 33, I was considered an older mom back then. According to an Upshot article on the New York Times website, “First-time mothers are older in big cities and on the coasts, and younger in rural areas and in the Great Plains and the South. In New York and San Francisco, their average age is 31 and 32.”
I would rather be referred to as a boomer, aka Baby Boomer (born between 1946 and 1964). Boomer has some flash and bang to it. It has a bit of pizzazz. Boom!
It turns out that many boomers don’t like being referred to as older people, elderly, senior citizens, or the Silver Tsunami.
When I think about my parents at the age I am now, I can’t help but be grateful that times have changed and the opportunities to feel younger and be healthier are so available.
I’m on a mission to encourage boomers to stop thinking “old” thoughts and to eliminate phrases like “having a senior moment” from their conversations.
I just dare someone to tell me to act my age.
Having just gone on Medicare this month, here’s my “elderly” story: I took my granddaughters to an indoor water park this summer on 1 of those rainy days. I so badly wanted to go down the big waterslide so I asked the lifeguard if it was just for kids or could anyone use it. Getting the green light to use it, I then asked him if any grandmas ever go down the slide. His comment: “Only the cool ones”. YES, young man!!! (BTW- it was awesome!) “Elderly”…….. hah!!!!!
YES! indeed!!! I love this story! And you’ve always known you are cool.
Let’s think about some words or phrases that might better suit our “generations” using the alphabet.
How about:
Ageless Babe
Captivating Diva
Exciting Female
Generously Happy
Intelligent Jumpstarter
Kind Laughter
Mindfully Nutty
Optimistic Presence
Quiet Restraint (when you call us elderly)
Salty Tongue (see above)
Understanding Vixen
Wise Xpert 🙂
Youthful Zippiness
How creative, Big Sis! They’re all so good, I’m not sure which one I want to choose! How about you?!?!